The Next Step Reading for Edel
The Bottom Line Next Step for EDEL
I got two steps, instead of just one, but they are in order
1. Laugh. Laugh at Yourself, Laugh at Your Situation.
Bring in More Joy to Your Life.
2. Start a business or new work career (In Money or Finances?)
Edel,
I sense a great deal of loss in your reading, and it is still raw for you. Since I do work and business related readings I wonder if you’ve lost someone close to you at work – a business partner or co-worker? Perhaps you’ve lost the job itself?
Or maybe you’ve just left a job and feel the loss intensely. Everyone goes through loss of course, but what I’m getting is that you haven’t had time, or been able to grieve fully for your loss. It is almost as though you are pragmatic about the situation and don’t think you should be feeling what comes up for you.
Are you able to take a break from your work to take some quiet time? If so allow yourself to ‘wallow’ for a while. Listen to sad music, draw, sit in the bathtub for long periods of time. This will be healing for you.
Something stops you from taking a break from work though. Maybe you can’t afford to do so? Find time anyway to heal yourself. During breaks, lunch before work go on walks or sit in your car and listen to music.
You are exhausted from putting up a brave face. It is taking your energy. Are you the social person at work? Networking, in sales or customer service? Allow your inner, authentic self to come through so that you aren’t taking so much energy keeping up appearances.
In the past you are used to ‘blowing through’ your issues or things that come up for you, so this feels stuck. And you aren’t used to the isolation that it brings. You are feeling alone with this sorrow, that no-one else can possibly understand, or you can’t show it to the world.
If you are able to start laughing at this situation, it will all shift for you, and quickly. Can you find ways to see the irony and how you play at part in this drama? Then you’ll be able to laugh at yourself.
There has been so much fighting, and now your heart is ready to open in a much bigger wider way so that you can trust. It is so hard to trust after you’ve been hurt. Yet it is time. Everything about this reading says that trust, adventure, stepping out are on the horizon for you.
The ONLY WAY you’ll know which direction to go is to place your hand on your heart and ask. If your heart is answering you’ll know it is the correct next step for you.
Do you have good instincts with money? Can you go into financial counseling or accounting? Perhaps start a business from home helping other organize their money?
That could be a good career goal for you.
I’ve got a few links to help you. These are your personal resources:
- Listen to this episode of This American Life about break up and sorrow.
- Take a Dave Ramsey Course on Budgeting or listen to his radio show
- Read some Dave Ramsey: The Total Money Makeover: A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness
or 48 Days to the Work You Love
- Subscribe to my blog on starting a business with no cash ShoeString Start-up
Let me know how you are doing Edel!
In this series of intuitive readings, I’m asking for information around the clients ‘next step. For more information or to get your own reading, read the Free Intuitive Readings Post.
